Prostate massage is like ice cream….it comes in many flavors. It could be administered by your partner, someone you pay, or by various toys such as prostate massagers, dildos, and the like. The list goes on… But when it comes down to picking the best lube for a prostate massage it matters. In this post, we’ll go over the best water based lube, the best silicone lube, and the best alternative lube that might already be hanging out in your pantry.

Best Lube for Prostate Massage

Now before we get started, it’s going to depend on what sort of prostate massage you’re going for. If you’re receiving a manual prostate massage from another person, it’s going to be different than using a toy like a dildo or a prostate massager which is purpose-built for hitting the male G spot.

Let’s start with manual massage lube, and then move into toy lube shall we?

Manual Prostate Massage Lube

I like to think of this more like ‘fisting’ lube, because no matter if you’re fisting or just having a finger or two inserted, the concept is the same… you want something a gloved hand can glide with the least friction possible, and the least mess as possible.

Super Silk

• Buttery and super slippery
• Good for anal sex
• Doesn’t dry out
• Thick and long lasting
• Fragrance & paraben free
• Safe for sensitive skin, no oil, grease or perfume
• Creamy but not messy
• Doesn’t stain sheets or clothes, no spots or spills
• Easy to clean up

K-Lube is a UK made product that comes in powder form. It offers exceptional silkiness and super slipperiness, enhancing comfort and reducing friction, and it is way more cost-effective than buying a giant bottle of regular lube. K-Lube quickly dissolves in water and creates a clear lube that is easy to use and easy to clean up.

Just adjust the thickness by adding the desired amount of water to achieve your perfect consistency.

• Concentrated Powder: Can be mixed with water to produce a lubricant.
• Customizable: Allows users to create a lubricant with their preferred consistency and quantity.
• Inclusivity: Suitable for men, women, and couples.
• Non-irritating: Should be gentle on the skin.
• Made in the UK: Signifying its origin and potentially its quality.

Customer Reviews:

• A Game Changer: It brings something new to the table.
• Great Value: Offers good performance for its price.
• Easy Clean-Up: It does not create a lot of mess and is easy to wash off.
• Natural Ingredients: Preferred for those seeking eco-friendly or skin-friendly options.
• High Rating: A 4.6 out of 5 stars on Amazon.

Best Lube for Silicone Prostate Massager & Dildos

My favorite lube for prostate massage is a two-fold answer. I tend to use my trusty Progasm for prostate massage. It fits me well, and I like the hard and intense feeling it gives me. Because it is made from a hard, medical-grade plastic, it can use any lube.

But you may be using toys that are either made from silicone, or a silicone-like material (these are usually less expensive toys that can leech harmful chemicals into your body!)

I am a big fan of silicone toys too! I have several different types, and if you’re like half the people on Reddit you probably have a growing collection by the day. For this reason I’ve been using Passion water-based lube for several years and find it to be the best deal. It comes in a 16 oz pump bottle, it’s available on Amazon, and it’s reasonably priced and made in the USA. Doesn’t get much better than that!It is extremely slippery, lasts long, and is easy to rejuvenate during longer sessions either with a little water or by adding more lube. But it is by no means like a lot of lubes on the market which starts to get sticky and gross quickly. This is the opposite of that.

Best Lube For Non-Silicone Prostate Massagers

Now this one is a little less toy friendly, but it is my favorite to pair with my Progasm because it can be used with any lube I want. Uber Silk is a no-scent, non-sticky lube that is thick to the touch and very slippery. It gives the prostate massager a frictionless feel to it. Since the toy is controlled entirely by voluntary and involuntary butt-hole muscles as it moves in and out (it is technically a hands-free experience) — this makes all of that possible.

I tend to have a better session when the toy has the most freedom of movement. It is reasonably priced, and extremely easy to have shipped. It cleans up well too!

More Options

I wanted to keep this one short and to the point, because these are the two mainstays that I tend to use. I do test other lubes frequently, and have a great article that runs down a bunch of other brands and types available over here.

Wrapping Up Best Prostate Massage Lube

The best lube is going to depend on what your exact use case is. Are you getting a manual massage from another person, or playing solo. And if playing solo is the toy made from a hard plastic material or silicone, which requires silicone friendly lubricants. These are just a few of choices out there, but these are the ones I’m a fan of.

If you’re just starting out and looking to understand hands free prostate massage I have a great guide that walks you through the beginning process, and we hook you up with some awesome prostate massagers that will get the job done too. Be sure to check out this page which breaks it all down into easy steps.