Spanking Bench & Prostate Massage?
If you practice prostate massage and have experienced any sort of pleasure, chances are you’ve had to do some experimenting along the way. For me personally, it has led to some experiments in arousal. I like to keep things fresh. What can I say?
If you aren’t familiar with prostate massage and specifically the pursuit of the hands free orgasm then please read the intro here. The gist is no penile stimulation, and using a prostate massager that is hands free in operation so that you can focus on the P-waves (pleasure waves) coming from the prostate region.
In this article, we’ll talk about getting in the mood, and specific to that, how a spanking bench might be the right move with or without a partner.
Initial Arousal
I usually think about a prostate session when its least convenient, like driving, yanking an AC out of a window, you name it. But when I know I’ll have the right time to relax, no distractions, no guilt, no obligations… I want to know that I’m going to have a good session. Reasonable, I think.
Part of that arousal step may be the usual… shower, put on something that makes you feel sexy. There’s a fork in the road… do you keep doing the usual? Or do you spice it up for yourself? I vote we spice it up, and keep things interesting!
Part of the enjoyment for me is the anticipation of the pleasure that’s coming my way. I know it might sound carried away, but there are times that I think about it for days.
If you’re like me then you also do a little planning for the right toy, the right lube, and the right atmosphere. But what do you do when you’re dreaming of getting spanked before, during, and after a prostate session? HMM?! We ask ourselves…
Do I Need a Spanking Bench?
Of course nobody needs a spanking bench, but the real question is do they want a spanking bench? I do. I want to feel vulnerable on a piece of furniture specifically there for my pleasure.
And these are the options…
Repurposed Furniture
I’ve got one of these inexpensive ottomans at the foot of the bed that stores linens, and honestly it might be the best thing I’ve got access to. It’s long, narrow, and perfect for straddling. It even boasts a weight limit of over 600lbs. Super sturdy if you don’t sway laterally. Self spanking on this is my current method, for now.
Buy Something
This is definitely an option, but I suppose it depends on if you’re spanking yourself solo or if you’ve got a partner willing to take control with something more ‘advanced’. I’m not against this at all, and quite frankly always wanted something more advanced. But alas we do not have the space for it yet.
Build Something?!
I wanted to put this first, but truth be told I haven’t had the balls to build anything yet. But that doesn’t mean I can’t dream, right? I found this very interesting woodworking plan book that got me thinking there is probably something in here that I can use as a blueprint for something pretty cool. A small spanking bench, customized to our needs…. custom stuff is where it’s at. And if you happen to be decent with woodworking, it might be worth taking a look through.
The Implement
Okay so we’ve got the surface for the spanking, but now we need the implement. It might be time to pull out that small riding crop we bought a while back. The helplessness of it all hitting across my ass is so hot!
But for you, be sure to pick your implement wisely. There are tons of options out there. Once you’ve got it figured, it’s time to play!
The Spanking Bench Gets Used
Getting in the mood for the Aneros toy doesn’t need to be the same each and every time. Go ahead and experiment!
A little self spanking before might get you oozing before you do anything at all…. which is a win!
While you will want to stay away from touching yourself during a session, a few love taps on the bottom might send a surge of pleasure through your body like it does for me. Wow! If you’re on the edge, it might even tip you over to where you’re trying to get. But you won’t know until you try!
If this gets you hot under the collar check out the inspiration for this post.
