If you aren’t familiar with the premature kink, or if you’re a seasoned premie that’s honed their skills, you’re in for an interesting post today. I’m newer to this one, because I didn’t realize this was even a thing up until recently. My focus for the past couple of years has been on prostate massage, and not so much on finishing quickly. If you aren’t familiar, it’s essentially it’s rooted in making sure that you come as quickly as possible. But there’s one aspect to it that caught my eye, the people that are able to do it without touching their dicks.

I was intrigued because I’ve come across similar stuff when it comes to prostate massage, milking is a very close activity in my book.

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Premature ejaculation is where an individual finds pleasure in either experiencing or causing their partner to ejaculate prematurely during sexual activity. This fetish can manifest in various ways, such as through verbal humiliation or physical stimulation, and it may involve the use of sex toys or other devices to help induce premature ejaculation. Basically, cumming in your pants with as little stimulation as possible as fast as possible — or no stimulation other than visual or audio cues.

Being a hands free prostate massage blog, I wanted to give it a try with this spin on it.

At first I just played with the idea of prejac. I’ve been very good about not masturbating lately except for a few times a month. So I knew I was somewhat already in tune to not lasting very long. It seems that after a week or two, I can get my time down to about 30 seconds. I figure that’s not bad, considering I used to last forever back when I was stroking at least twice a day.

The regaining of my sensitivity really took off once I started refraining from masturbation, and put my focus into prostate massage using my trusty Aneros Progasm once in a blue moon.

But while I was able to get a sub-30 second times, I still could not do it from visual or audio cues only unless it was with a prostate massager in and I wasn’t touching myself.

It seems a lot of people online do training so they can come hands free to visual cues…. it’s interesting and hot, but since I more or less swore off traditional porn, runs counter to my goals.

A quick rundown of the types of hands free pleasure / cumming:

In my book there are a few methods for hands free play.

1: Hands free massage using a toy like the Aneros (my favorite) and coming using a combination of meditation and imagination to have full body orgasms over and over again.

2: Milking the prostate with a toy, encouraging precum to ooze, and stopping at that or jerking off to finish

3: Rubbing the prostate and jerking off until finishing.

4: The up-to-now unattainable method of literally ejaculating hands free.

I don’t know why number 4 has mattered to me all that much, but there is something very hot about it. I just love the idea of coming strictly from something hitting the prostate and stretching my asshole… sends shivers down my spine.

Up to now it’s been fleeting to get it to happen, I’d watch videos of people riding dildos and squirting all over the place, and to be honest I was a little jealous! Some people can even watch a video and come in their pants!

I just came across something that had me cumming hands free from prostate stim, which literally took me about sub 10 seconds to attain. I figured I’d quickly write a post about it in case anyone else is on the same mission.

Withholding Stim – My Session

This is what I did.

I have an app called Countdown which is a time tracker which sets a date and time, and it’ll count up/down from that point. I use it to track how and when I last came.

Last checked, it’s been 39 days and counting. A lot to say the least! But I think this actually played an essential role in my success.

For whatever reason, whenever I tried for any sort of oozing or come hands free it hasn’t worked well. I’d get some oozing, some dripping, but nothing super significant.

Lately I’ve been playing two double-ended strap ons, and realized I could hang them on a shower bar for some extra leverage. Since the tip is facing down, it naturally presses on the prostate a bit more than a dildo would if it was stuck 90 degrees against a wall or floor.

You would simply lift it and insert while bent over in front of it, the curve facing down towards the floor. This is KEY!

The one in the picture seems hard to get, but I usually play with the Fun Factory Share Vibe because I get an even more intense prostate rub out of it — the more narrow tip seems to help a lot!

It feels FUCKING GREAT by the way, it’s the deepest I’ve been able to feel, and this isn’t even close to the largest toy in the collection. Just allow it to hang like it is, inverted, with plenty of lube.

With 39 days on the clock of zero stimulation, no playing, edging, nothing, I decided it was time to enjoy this a little before a shower.

I pre-lubed myself, and the toy, and slowly pressed it in. It hurt a bit because it’s been a while since I’ve played back there. Slowly but surely, it slid right back in, stretching me out.

I felt the pressure on my prostate immediately. It felt like it usually does, really really good. I decided to press back onto it a bit more, to go deeper. I love the feeling of it rubbing against my prostate… but this time I could feel a bit extra pressure than usual.

After about 3-4 pumps of the dildo, the stretching, the pressure, I think I lasted about 10 seconds of rocking before a MASSIVE amount of precum oozed from the tip. I wasn’t even squeezing or trying to get it to come out. It just flowed right out.

What normally amounts to a small amount of milk turned out to be straight up OOZING…. and lots lots of it.

While the first one was surprising, it’s not like it hasn’t happened before. To a smaller degree it has many times, but this was different because after the first one, another one trickled out and hit my thigh on the way down. It also splattered and ran down my knee. Oh My God.

Not only was there the fluid, but it also felt AMAZING and my legs shook uncontrollably. It felt so fucking good! I think I had 4-5 mini orgasms for a solid 5 minutes, I couldn’t control it one bit! Just slow rocking, immense pleasure, and finally a true hands free coming session.

I was empty, fucked, and feeling like I needed a break.

Overall it was an incredible experience, and I’m curious to see how the next one goes. I’m not sure how long to wait this time, but I think at least a week or two so I can run the same test again. I suspect it might’ve been because of the abstinence.

Until next time. If you want to learn more about this kink, check out the prej.ac blog.

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