Keep these main points in mind when using an Aneros…

• Prepare for Pleasure: Find a cozy, secluded spot where you can unleash your inner pleasure seeker. Ensure you have ample time to indulge without any pesky distractions. Lubrication is your ally, so slather that Aneros massager with a generous amount of lube for smooth sailing.
• Get in Position: Lie back on a soft surface, like a cloud made of marshmallows, with your knees bent and feet planted firmly on the ground. Want a little extra lift? Grab a cushion or two and prop up your hips for optimal access to the treasure trove that is your prostate.
• Insertion Delight: Take a deep breath, relax, and guide that Aneros to the promised land. The key is to go slow, listen to your body, and let it dictate the pace. Remember, pleasure waits for no one!
• Zen Mode: Close your eyes, my friend, and enter a state of blissful relaxation. Breathe deeply, feeling the waves of anticipation wash over you. Inhale the ecstasy, exhale the tension. You’re in for a wild ride!
• The Art of Movement: As you surrender to the sensations, let your body do the talking. Experiment with subtle pelvic movements, contracting and releasing those pelvic floor muscles like a maestro of pleasure. The Aneros will dance to your rhythm, caressing your prostate with every move.
• Discover and Conquer: There are no limits to the pleasure you can unleash. Explore, my intrepid explorer! Try different angles, speeds, and techniques. Your body is a canvas, and the Aneros is your paintbrush. Find the strokes that make you quiver with delight.

Aneros Guide

Taking ample time to explore and relax during a solo session of prostate massage can greatly enhance the experience. It’s important not to rush through the process and allow yourself the luxury of uninterrupted time. Setting aside several hours of silence, free from distractions, is ideal for fully immersing yourself in the experience. By not setting a specific time limit, you can let the exploration unfold naturally without any external pressures. One approach is to choose a late night for your session, ensuring that you don’t have early commitments the following day. This way, you can start your session later in the evening and continue until you feel ready for sleep. This extended timeframe allows you to fully indulge in the sensations and gradually discover what brings you the most pleasure and satisfaction.

A Super O Because of a Pillow?

There are many different positions you can use (more on this below), but for me, I do my best on my back with my feet flat on the bed. But I also like a little bit of a butt boost to lift my hips, it just helps the toy reach a bit better. This is why I use a Liberator wedge, which gives me enough lift to really hit the spot.

Clothes That Make You Feel Sexy

If you’ve got some sexy clothing you’d like to wear between the shower and your session, now is a good time to put it on and further get into that aroused headspace. This might be something that makes you feel confident in yourself, your best shirt, your best underwear, or if you’re into lingerie, the best thing you’ve got! Strut your stuff!

Good Vibes 

Meditative music playing in the background helps me relax. It allows me to ignore everything on the outside world, or any noises that may come from the house itself. I’ve found that Audible actually has an incredible selection, and you can do the free trial. There is one album called binaural beats on Audible that gets me feeling calm and relaxed. You want orgasmic sounds without orgasmic sounds if that makes sense, something to get lost in.

Focus on your breathing. Count up to 30 long, slow breaths before moving on.

There is a do nothing approach that tends to work really well for people. It’s very much about laying there, zoned out, and listening for tingles.

Mental & Physical Relaxation Before and During Aneros Use

Relaxation is super important when it comes to anything to do with the butt and especially when trying to achieve The Super O. This is KEY when using a prostate massager. The rectum is tight, dry, and needs the most ‘warming up’ in regards to moving slow and with a ton of lube. It needs the person to be fully relaxed and receptive to good pleasure waves.

• Relaxation will help you relax your butt muscles inside and out
• It will allow the finger, hand, toy to be inserted comfortably
• A relaxed mind will allow for a relaxed body
• Your body will be more receptive to tingles and sensations emanating from the prostate and the rest of your body
• You mind will be more receptive to the P waves coming from your body

How To Clean The Anus For Prostate Play

Now it’s time to get into the nitty gritty of how to use an Aneros. There are several products that exist to clean the anus before prostate play.

My favorite method…

Full Evacuation: I’m a cheap ass, and I’ve found that if I’ve had my coffee, I can generally get myself pretty empty just by spending some time on the toilet. If you’ve got time, this is the best method in my opinion. You’ll want to be sure you shower next…

Enemas: A lot of people use enemas to ensure a clean butt hole, but there are definitely some health considerations before going this route. There are enemas like the Fleet enema that can be had off Amazon for relatively little money that use a saline solution. I’ve gone this route before and find that it is a bit healthier than buying a bulb and using filtered tap water. My issue with this method is it can become addicting, and the end result isn’t necessarily all that much better than a full evacuation a couple hours before play.

Bidets: If you’re lucky enough to have a bidet, use it to help cleanse the area. They are incredible devices and are relatively inexpensive.

Shower: I don’t know how people could ever skip this step, but be sure that you are showered and squeaky clean ESPECIALLY if you expect someone to do this exploration with you. It is your dootie (get it?) to ensure you do not induce vomiting for your partner in crime. Treat them like gold! You can scar them for life, do not fuck this up! A shower will help get you into the right headspace too! Use it to clear your mind, destress, and get ready for something new and exciting.

Aneros Insertion Guide

Lubricate Your Ass & The Aneros

Ensure the Aneros or similar toy is fully lubricated, there is no such thing as too much lube! If you haven’t yet lubricated your rectum, put a nice amount on the tip of a finger and rub it around the opening. Insert your finger with a small glob of lube and rotate your finger on the inside. You’ll want the toy and your butt to be very lubed!

Aneros Positions

The position in which you use the Aneros will depend on your personal comfort and preference. Some popular positions include:

• On your back: Lying on your back with your knees bent and your feet flat on the floor can be a comfortable position for using the Aneros. This is frequently my favorite position and I have my best success with this.
• On your stomach: Lying on your stomach with your legs spread apart can also be a comfortable position for using the Aneros.
• Kneeling: Kneeling on a soft surface with your legs spread apart can be a good position for using the Aneros.
• Laying on the right side with your knee lifted: Laying on your side with one knee bent and the other leg straight can be a comfortable position for using the Aneros. This is another good position to try.
• While sitting: Sitting on a chair or the edge of a bed with your legs spread apart can also be a comfortable position for using the Aneros. For this position to work well you need to make sure the toy can move on its own and not touch the chair.

How To Insert The Aneros

To insert the Aneros, make sure the orientation is correct. Aneros toys are typically shaped with a curve, so you’ll want the curve to press up behind the belly button.

Be sure to push it in slowly.  If this is your first time inserting something, do it very slow and reapply lube as needed. If it hurts, stop, wait a moment then try again. It might take 3-4 attempts before you’re comfortable enough with insertion. A good tip is to exhale while inserting.

Settling In & Using the Aneros

At this point the muscles will pull the toy in and the P-tabs (perineum tabs) will rest on the outside of your butt to prevent the toy from going too deep. This is completely normal and safe. We want the toy to do the majority of the work.

Does It Feel Different?

Once the toy is in you might feel a ‘different’ feeling. That is pressure on the prostate. If you’ve got this sensation then we’ve got good contact. And even if it isn’t, don’t fret, a lot of times it’s imperceptible until later.

Using an Aneros is not about hammering the prostate with sensations because you cannot ‘bang’ a Super O out of your prostate. This is exactly why the non-vibrating versions of these toys are the best. You must be willing to relax, breathe, and let go. Once the toy is in just relax, breathe, and listen for pings of pleasure.

How To Use An Aneros

Pleasure Pings / P-Waves

This step is all about relaxing, and listening for small pings of pleasure. It is these teenie tiny vibrations that need to be coaxed into becoming stronger and stronger waves. Those waves will build over time and eventually can lead to your first Super O! It cannot be understated that if you feel pings of pleasure, you must do everything you can to stay the course and not get overly excited. It is about growing these pings more and more.

Stay relaxed, stay calm. Keep breathing, slow, in through your nose, out through your mouth. A good trick is to count your breaths. 5 seconds of inhaling, 5 seconds of exhaling. I usually work best at about 15 seconds. It is here that the pings of pleasure can start to come through without any clenching at all.

The goal is to continue the pings of pleasure for as long as possible. If you’re able to feel any amount of these tiny tremors, then you’re off to the races.

Tiny Contractions

After some time with the do nothing method, you can start to play with light anal contractions. It is important to be as light as possible with any contractions or movements at this stage. We are still trying to garner p-waves and get them to awaken the prostate. Buzzing or small twinges may start to occur, and it’s important to stay the course.

Light Touching

Experiment with light caressing up and down your body. Use this moment to explore sensitive areas like the nipples, abdomen, and thighs. Do not touch the penis at all costs, it will detract from the p-waves. If light touching is taking away from the sensations, just rest your hands at your sides and breathe.

Use Visualization, Not Porn

Porn is very distracting and can lead to doom scrolling and hopping to a million videos to get off. But when learning how to use an Aneros, it can be disastrous because it will steal your focus and the pleasure pings we’re talking about will likely not happen.

Instead of fiddling with a computer or phone, you need to focus and use the imagination to turn yourself on. This is why it’s good to refrain from sexual pleasure in the days leading up to a session, because the mental horny-ness will be ever present!

Close your eyes and visualize what turns you on and stay with these visualizations. For instance, if you’re wearing underwear and happen to be into feet, you can visualize that the underwear you feel is actually a gorgeous foot rubbing on you. Use something that turns you on to build your pleasure waves.

Relax the outer muscles, and allow your inner pelvic floor muscles to take over. They will involuntarily move and manipulate the toy. That’s what we’re after. Continue to visualize and stay with what feels good in the moment.

It is important not to chase an orgasm. It’s about the journey, appreciating the moment, and the pleasure you’re experiencing.

Ebb & Flow

In my opinion one of the big takeaways from my first Super O is the realization of ebb and flow. Think of it like the tide coming in and going out with the ocean. On first insertion there may be very little stimulation, which can be frustrating. It is our job to stay focused, build the pleasure, and do what we can to prolong the good feelings for as long as possible.

I recall the first time I had a Super O, I just bought my Progasm and I tried for a hands free orgasm a couple of times. I had my legs elevated on the wall and I was about to throw in the towel. My prostate was buzzing, and I was getting pleasure from the toy but it also felt like I had hit a plateau. I couldn’t get over the hill.

Hands Free Orgasms

I wasn’t doing anything at the moment. In fact all I was doing was laying there about to give up. I did a lot of research into this toy, guesstimated the size needed against the products available, and chose the Progasm because I wanted a toy that was hard for a little more pressure on my prostate. I was disappointed and frustrated, but I relaxed back into it. The pleasure had ebbed and so I drifted back into relaxation and light breathing exercises.

KEY Aneros Usage Tips

Being able to reset as if you first inserted the toy is going to help turn the tide from an ebb to a flow. Stay calm, stay relaxed, and stay focused.

During my session with my legs up on the wall, I was able to garner small pings of pleasure again as if starting from scratch. Only this time the P waves built quickly and rapidly, and in a manner of a minute or so I started to get intense pleasure waves through my hips that radiated out into my limbs. I couldn’t stop quivering, it was completely uncontrollable. My penis got rock hard. I was literally stuck as if a bolt of lightning struck me, I couldn’t move.

The Super O can sometimes sneak up just when you think the session is over. Just when the plateau hits, and you feel like the pleasure has dissipated down to almost zero. This is so important to remember, you should probably write it down!

The Super O

Just laying there, the toy in, pressure on, and completely relaxed. Deep inside I can feel small twinges of pleasure for every dirty thought. I close my eyes and use the visualization to swing me higher and higher into waves of incredible pleasure. One small wave builds to a slightly larger one, and on we go.

The Super O is elusive and tricky to figure out, and people even talk about it happening outside of a session. It’s all about awakening the prostate to where you can feel these buzzes and pings of pleasure.

To achieve a Super O, you must stay with the pleasure for as long as possible but without chasing the orgasm. Just take your time, follow these guidelines, and experiment with yourself. Do not set expectations and instead set standards for playtime. Ensure you’ve got time, your fully clean, and set the stage for success. It might sneak up and bite you in the ass!

Frustration Leads To Failure

I read and answer a lot of questions on the Aneros forums and Aneros Reddit from people looking to figure out prostate orgasms and the Super O. They are frequently very frustrated and new to the space, and don’t know where to go.

The purpose of this site is to help people before they end up on the Aneros forums or the Aneros Reddit sub-thread cluelessly asking for help. We have a ton of good information here!

Troubleshooting & Expectations

A lot of men complain that they aren’t able to feel anything special back there in a session. It can lead to frustration, and eventually, giving up. This is unfortunately a possibility, because there are a lot of factors that contribute to a Super O.

The best advice I can give is to stay calm, and follow the “do-nothing” approach. Just lay there with the toy in, focus on breathing, and play with holding a breath for 5-15 seconds. Sometimes these breathing exercises awaken small P-waves, and this is the best way to get them building in the right direction. Do not forget about ebb and flow. Pleasure will come, pleasure will go, but if you stick to your guns you can get it to come back in a massive way.

Think of P-waves like driving a manual, you’ve got to give it a little gas while releasing the clutch. Do it too quickly and you’ll stall out. Start out slow and gentle, and you’ll be rolling in no time.

How you use an Aneros is entirely up to the end user. The best advice on using an Aneros is to go into a session with zero expectations for an orgasm. Insert the toy, and refrain from introducing any other stimulation as it will pull your focus away from the feelings in the prostate. Use these Aneros tips to keep frustration at bay. Continue to breathe, relax, and stay in the moment.

The Bottom Line

Using a prostate massager for prostate stimulation can be a transformative and pleasurable experience. To embark on this journey, it is crucial to start by choosing the right toy. Consider factors such as the toy’s ability to contour the anus and reach the prostate, its use of body-safe materials, and its proven track record based on customer testimonials. Investing in a high-quality toy can significantly enhance your chances of success and satisfaction.

I can only speak from my experience, and that has been with Aneros the entire journey. Sure there are other options out there, but this is what I know.

Once you have the right tool in hand, it’s essential to prepare both your mind and body. Creating a relaxed and calm environment, free from distractions, is paramount. Take the time to indulge yourself with a block of several hours, allowing for uninterrupted exploration and play. Lubrication is your ally throughout the process, so be generous in applying it to the toy for smooth and comfortable insertion.

Positioning yourself in a comfortable posture, such as lying on your back with knees bent or on your stomach, can optimize access to the prostate. Utilize additional aids like cushions or wedges to lift your hips and enhance the toy’s reach.

As you begin the insertion process, proceed slowly and listen to your body’s cues. Relaxation is key, so take deep breaths and let your body dictate the pace. Once the prostate massager is inserted, settle into a state of blissful relaxation and focus on your breathing. Visualize the pleasure and allow yourself to experience the subtle tingles and sensations that arise.

The journey with a prostate massager is one of self-exploration and discovery. Embrace the art of movement, experimenting with gentle pelvic contractions and releases, as well as exploring other sensitive areas of your body. Your pleasure and enjoyment are not confined to physical touch alone—visualization and imagination can play a powerful role in intensifying the experience.

Remember that the path to a Super O, a hands-free prostate orgasm, is not about chasing an orgasm itself but rather about savoring the pleasure waves and building upon them. It’s a process of ebb and flow, where patience and perseverance are key. Allow yourself to surrender to the sensations and relish in the unique pleasure it provides!

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