Adjusting Mentality Around Prostate Toys & Porn

I need a toy that’s 3.3 inches wide, 5 inches tall, purple, green, and it needs to vibrate via an app. It must have two tentacles, not just one. It’s got to have a heating element, and it needs to cleanup afterwards too. Thanks

The quote above isn’t really a quote, it’s just my imagination running amuck. But I find it fascinating just how specific people are when looking for new toys. They’ve got this list in their head of  ‘wants’ and ‘needs’  that can make any outsider’s head spin! But it is understandable, we live in a world where everything is customizable and tailored to your specifics. Butt toys included.

The Wrong Tool For The Job

I don’t understand why there is pleasure in anal stretching, or shoving the largest items you can in your bum, but I can’t deny that it is a thing. Maybe it’s because of the physical pleasure it brings. But perhaps it’s more of a mental thing, where people are trying to feel something that they aren’t getting in their everyday lives. I suspect that it is the latter in this case.

It is very easy to fall down a rabbit hole of wants, needs, and eventually… demands. I guess I’m trying to get away from that, because that mentality will never be satisfied. It is truly unsustainable.

My Issue With Unsustainable Practices

When you were a horny ass kid, didn’t you get turned on just sitting in class and picturing making out with that hot ass girl in the back row? I did!

Fast forward to today. How much and how extreme is the porn that you watch? If you’d be embarrassed to show your 18 year old self the shit that you’ve gotten into, perhaps it’s time for an adjustment.

I suppose I’m trying to connect the toy demands to the demands of pornography today. It can’t just be a butt toy, and it can’t just be two people making out, it’s got to be pushed to a more intense level in order to get the same mileage.

I think a lot of people are after that ‘first sex’ feeling, and trying to find it with porn and fill it with more and more toys. But it will always be out of reach because it is an unsustainable perception.

The List Grows And Eventually Runs Out

It’s sort of like, this stuff just grows and grows to where you’ve got to have more and more. And eventually, you’re looking for such specific stuff that you think is gonna work, but it won’t. It never will. Why?

Because the perception needs to change. It’s not about how large it is, or what color, or any of that.

Hands free orgasms happen because you’ve tapped into how it makes you feel. Not feeling as in “horny”. Feeling as in vulnerable. True emotion.

This site centers on figuring it out. I believe you can have amazing sex, and amazing toys and hands free orgasms galore! But I think it can be done without relying on porn and masturbation in the traditional sense.

The Right Tool For The Job

Prostate massage is about listening to your body and understanding how you feel in that very moment.

If you’re looking for a new toy, don’t just dig into Amazon looking for ‘the one’ true toy that can’t ever be beat. It can, and it will.

For those with prostates, focus on finding the right toy for your anatomy. Find that and you’ll never ‘need’ to buy another toy again. It will sustain you for years and years to come!

If this tickled your fancy, check out my article on why I stopped masturbating in the traditional sense, and how mental chastity might be a good path forward.

Interested In Giving It A Try?