Sissy Training, Feeling Submissive, Sissy Panties & Sissygasms
It’s engrained in our culture, that women are objectified and men are frequently the objectifier. It’s generally true, after all. But this site revolves around breaking these common stereotypes. I can’t speak for women, but I can speak for a subset of men out there. We want to be sexualized, objectified, and laid bare to our partners! How do we accomplish this? By dressing sexy, in sexy things that make us feel sexy. What is sexy? Sissy panties, thongs, and other clothing items that aren’t traditionally found in culture. Sissy lingerie is basically the things we “shouldn’t” be wearing.
Everyone has their own interpretations and understanding of what they’re trying to ‘feel’ when they embark on the very scary path of buying their first risque clothes. Personally speaking, I want to feel like I look sexy outside of already looking ‘great’ to my partner.
If you’ve ever wondered why a woman might go to extreme lengths for beauty, hair extensions, tons of makeup, ridiculous outfits that are worn once — it’s similar. While others might find them perfectly attractive in their natural state, they want to feel above and beyond the norm. They’re dressing up. And we want more sissies in panties!
Sissy Panties
Getting into a sissy mindset usually involves dressing the part. Here are some of the best panties I’ve found that I love and recommend.
High Waist Glossy Ice Silk Mens Briefs / Mens Sissy Panties
These high waist glossy silk panties are my number ones because they are extremely comfortable and they make my ass look amazing. The cut in the material is extremely flattering and lifts my butt enough to make it seem like I have a bubble butt (even though its pretty flat generally). They are very delicate, so I recommend buying a few colors to avoid wearing them out.
Summer Code Men’s Striped Thong Low Rise Elastic Waistband Underwear
These thongs are my favorite in thongs available on Amazon right now. While not traditionally “sissy panties” they are excellent for those moments when I want to feel sexy under my clothes or around the house without going full sissy. They are extremely comfortable, and they work great in summer or when working that ass out!
Sissy pouch panties men’s hipster panty lace bikini briefs
These Aishani pouch panties are another favorite because they make me feel very feminine for those times before training or play. They fit well on the hips, and they hold a larger than average package where it needs to be without cutting too much into the sides. Very comfortable, and available in a variety of colors and sizes.
Black Scandal Lace & Mesh Men’s G-String Garter Short
If you’re looking for a nice panty and garter set then look no further. These are very comfortable and they are excellent especially if you’re into playing while partially dressed. Personally it adds to the excitement and the sissy sub space.
Sheer Burnout Zip It Men’s Short
If you can look past the overly sharpened photos for these, then you’ll know that this is actually a really nice pair of sheer see-thru shorts. They feature a zip on the front, and are great and very comfortable.
Dreamgirl Women’s Fishnet Thigh High Stockings with Silicone Lace Top and Back Seam
Of course things aren’t always about panties, sometimes you just want some lacey fishnets. These have silicone around the bands at the top to keep them from rolling down. They are excellent and durable if you hand wash them. Couple these with freshly shaved legs, buttery smooth, and you’re ready for showtime.
Sexy Seamless Lingerie Bodysuit Chemise Nightwear Attached Bodystockings
A body stocking is also a slam dunk when gearing up for sissy training. I like the body stockings that have the option for panties underneath. Again, it’s a lot more fun to train with clothes on.
What Are Sissy Panties?
Sissy panties are panties that are crafted for men’s bodies. That means a better fit for male hips, and more space in the front for dicks.
Where To Buy Sissy Panties
Sissy panties can be bought from various places. My favorite at the moment is from Amazon because… it’s Amazon. Comeon they have excellent choices that are reasonably priced, considering traditional lingerie in general can be extremely expensive.
How To Be a Sissy / Sissy Training
There’s no right way to be a sissy, it’s merely about dressing the part, being locked in chastity either by your partner or self-locking (although self locking is likely the most common way it’s not going to be as satisfying as someone who cares.
If you want to self lock, always play safely!), and sissy training your ass and mouth to take gigantic 8-12 inch dicks.
Full insertion, no gagging!!!! And lots of saliva dribbling 😉
If you’re more anally trained than the average person, you should check out this 10 inch silicone dildo (pictured below). It is massive, and the head is huge. But once it’s in, it is insanely pleasurable and the suction is very good. Chances are you won’t be able to fit the whole thing in, but that’s okay, it’s all about getting the angle right. A great method is to use this in the shower on a wall, and angle it so that it bends up and towards the belly button. This combined with the training below for a sissygasm will have you squirting like a little bitch!
Sissy Milking
Sissy milking is essentially milking the prostate until fluid leaks out which is all part of the larger scope of training to be a sissy. While some people are adept at training with a large dildo pressing on the prostate, the Njoy Pure Wand is well known in circles for its strength. 
The Njoy Pure Wand is a stainless steel wand that is highly polished and a sight to see. It is excellent for sissy training and forced milking.
Proper Lube
Picking the correct lubricant depends on the type of toy you’re playing with. There is one general rule most follow, if it’s a silicone toy, do not use silicone lube. There is a chemical reaction that occurs that results in the toy melting, which can obviously ruin some of the more expensive toys.
I have had good success with the lubes I’ve found, including some of the hybrid lubes that contain longer lasting materials that are safe on silicone toys.
One of my newest discoveries is J Lube which is a powder lubricant that is mixed with water when ready for use. It is pretty basic, and very cost effective.
Sissy Training Audio
Feminization audio is a form of hypnosis that is typically used to help individuals adopt feminine characteristics, behavior, or mannerisms. This type of audio programming is often used by individuals who identify as transgender or gender nonconforming, as well as by people who are interested in exploring their gender identity. Feminization audio can be used to help people change their speech patterns, walk and posture, fashion sense, and other physical and behavioral characteristics associated with femininity.
I recommend signing up to Audible for their free trial and giving this a listen. You’ll need to train hard and long, but we both know you’ll love every second of it, you dirty slut!
What Is a Sissygasm?
In this context, a sissygasm is an orgasm that is often achieved during or as a result of activities that are considered to be feminine, such as pounding the prostate until precum & come ooze out. It is generally achieved while wearing lingerie, makeup, or high heels, or engaging in activities such as teasing, denial, or forced feminization.
What Does a Sissygasm Feel Like?
A sissygasm has a bunch of different feelings to it and everyone has a different experience. So far it feels like a massive amount of come oozing out while my prostate tingles and twitches. I wouldn’t describe the feeling quite the same as the intense full body orgasms of the Super O while using an Aneros, but more in line with amazing pleasure overall and a very submissive feeling. It has a really good knack for knocking people into sub-space, sort of this mindset where you’re floating in a cloud of intense pleasure.
What Is Sub Space?
In BDSM, subspace is a term used to describe a state of mind that a submissive or bottom may enter during a BDSM scene or activity. This state is characterized by a feeling of euphoria, detachment from reality, and increased endorphins. Subspace can be achieved through different activities such as sensory deprivation, impact play, and many other forms of BDSM play. It is considered to be a natural response to the release of endorphins in the body and the sense of submission and trust involved in BDSM play. Some people report feelings of weightlessness and floating, others say that their mind goes completely blank or that they lose awareness of pain. It is a unique experience for everyone.
How To Sissygasm
Sissygasms aren’t learned overnight and can take quite a lot of training to be able to dribble pre-cum / cum when hitting the prostate during an intense anal session.
The best way to learn how to have a sissygasm is to be prepared for two things. First, have a dildo that is ready to be ridden with lots of lube. Second, be prepared to switch between dildo and not touching yourself and riding the dildo without touching the penis.
This is key. The best way I can share how this is done is to first jerk yourself off until just before you’re about to come, but DO NOT ACTUALLY COME. Get right up to the edge, then saddle up and hit the prostate for a bit. Do not touch your dick, and continue to ride.
Once you go soft, then get off the dildo and continue to jerk off right back to the edge without coming. Once you’re hanging there, get back on the dildo and continue riding.
Repeat this process until you start leaking all over the place, and have your first sissygasm.
It is the repetition that will train yourself to leak a lot during anal play. The best way to learn this is to do this training several times a week until you are a trained sissy slut!
Intense Vibrator
My last piece of starter advice for the novice sissy is to get a massager for your clitty. This needs to be powerful enough to vibrate through the cage, since this is one of two ways you can now cum. Get a MassageGun Pro. It’s very small and compact, it’s got 4 different heads and 6 speeds, and is very powerful. It will surely help you turn into the little slut you’ve been aching to become.
The Perfect Sissy
The bottom line is sissy panties, training, and all the above is about feeling something that isn’t found in regular vanilla life. It takes guts to pursue something that isn’t widely accepted in society. That’s okay! Maybe it never will, we’re not here to change people’s minds. But if you’re interested in wearing panties and feeling sexy, objectified, and desired this might be something you enjoy. Play safe, and remember it’s supposed to be fun!
